“ODoH sends DNS queries through the first internet relay, so the DNS server cannot identify the user issuing a query. Each query itself is padded and encrypted using Hybrid Public Key Encryption (HPKE) to help ensure that the first internet relay cannot tell the domain name a user is looking up.”
Apple is the “first internet relay” and they seem to explicitly state that they don’t see the DNS queries themselves.
https://www.apple.com/privacy/docs/iCloud_Private_Relay_Over...